Me? I’m a post-tribber who believes that the next time Christ Jesus returns, it will certainly be as Lord of lords and King of kings to rule and reign for 1,000 years (the millennium).
1 Thes. 4:17 Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord.
We need to understand what subject is being discussed here. Is it the return of Christ? No. Actually, we need to go back and read verse 13 to find the subject.
1 Thes. 4:13 But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep (in death), that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope.
So the subject here is “where are those who have died”—Paul doesn't want us to be ignorant about where the dead are. because the Sadducees were misinforming everyone, claiming that there is no such thing as a resurrection or life after death.
1 Thessalonians 4:14 For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him.
So if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, then we must also believe that our loved ones who have died knowing Jesus, rose also (changed, of course, into their spiritual bodies) to be with Him. In other words, when Jesus returns at the second advent (Coming), He will bring these dead in Christ folks with Him.
16 For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first:
That's the purpose of Paul explaining this... "I don't want you to be ignorant concerning where the dead are."
So the "dead in Christ,” those who have died believing in the Lord, who are with Him now (Ecclesiastes 12:7), will rise first when Christ returns at His Second Coming. There’s no rapture before this time.
17 Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord.
The Greek word translated "air" is aer, which by one definition can refer to our spiritual body, our "breath" of life body. We gather back to Christ, alongside our brethren who have already passed away and are already in their spiritual bodies. Now we are going to gather with them and Christ in a group, we also being in our new spiritual bodies that were changed in a twinkling of an eye (1 Corinthians 15:52): In a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trump: for the trumpet shall sound, and the dead shall be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed.
And, by the way, the phrase “in the clouds” means “in a group.” When Jesus returns, we are going to gather together in a large group with the saints that are coming with Him. Paul uses the same colloquial expression in Hebrews 12:1 when he speaks about a great cloud of witnesses, in other words, a large group of witnesses.
Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us (Hebrews 12:1)
I believe Christ is returning to the Mount of Olives here on earth, and this is where we gather to Him, not up in the sky in the clouds.