No one teaches "near" or the Second Coming the way Dispensationalists do.
Other than the Lord Himself:
Mat 25:13Watch therefore, for ye know neither the day nor the hour wherein the Son of man cometh.
Phl 4:5 Let your moderation be known unto all men. The Lord is at hand.
The day of the Lord's coming has been near since He ascended to heaven. The disciples were standing around looking up in the sky for Him to come right back after sitting with the Father on His throne. (Which sitting was prophesied that the risen Lord should do:
"Sit thou on my right hand...")
Paul believed he could still be alive when the Lord returns into the air.
1 Th 4:15For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which are asleep...Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord.
In fact, not to believe His coming is near, is the unbelief that corrupts the hearts of servants of the Lord to begin to do evil:
Mat 24:48But and if that evil servant shall say in his heart, My lord delayeth his coming.
Some of what you're asking does not require scripture to be proved wrong.
True. I accept your own personal testimony of some corrupt practices in the dispensational church you were a part of.
For example, the Dispensationalist teaching, and their use of "near," is one in which they are constantly claiming the coming of the Lord is near but not a single Dispensationalist has never been correct.
There is of course a difference between believing the Scriptures the Lord is at hand, and making predictions of the day and hour of His coming.
The Bible teaches it is wise to understand tomorrow is not promised, and the fool does not number his days.
Covenantalists do not teach "nearness," they teach imminence.
Is there an opposition of dispensationalism to the covenants of God? Do they deny the OT and NT?
I'm born again into the new covenant of the risen God of Israel Jesus Christ. I don't believe in his imminence the Pope. (Just joking)
If you mean, the Spirit of the Lord is everywhere, then that's always been true, and always will be. If you mean the Lord is searching all hearts, and calling all men unto repentance, and judging all men by our works, then that has been true since the resurrection of the Lord Jesus.
That's not any faith particular to any doctrine: That is the doctrine of Jesus Christ in Scripture. His covenant is taking away the foreskin of lust to be wholly new creatures of God in deed and in truth.
As a new testament member of the Lord's body on earth, I wholeheartedly believe and practice the Lord is at hand, and I pray for it daily.
And we already see the danger to the heart of not believing in His coming is always near at hand.
2Pe 3:3 Knowing this first, that there shall come in the last days scoffers, walking after their own lusts, And saying, Where is the promise of his coming? for since the fathers fell asleep, all things continue as they were from the beginning of the creation.
It was the same in the OT pertaining prophecy of His coming to earth the first time.
Isa 30:9That this is a rebellious people, lying children, children that will not hear the law of the LORD: Which say to the seers, See not; and to the prophets, Prophesy not unto us right things, speak unto us smooth things, prophesy deceits: Get you out of the way, turn aside out of the path, cause the Holy One of Israel to cease from before us.
Isa 13:6 Howl ye; for the day of the LORD is at hand; it shall come as a destruction from the Almighty.
Amils, Postmils, Idealisst...., none of them teach Dispensational nearness.
By definition they reject the Lord is at hand. And some don't believe His coming at all. And some make a fabulous joke out of it.
2Pe 1:16For we have not followed cunningly devised fables, when we made known unto you the power and coming of our Lord Jesus Christ, but were eyewitnesses of his majesty.
Deuteronomy 18:20-22
But the prophet who speaks a word presumptuously in My name which I have not commanded him to speak, or which he speaks in the name of other gods, that prophet shall die.' "You may say in your heart, 'How will we know the word which the LORD has not spoken?' "When a prophet speaks in the name of the LORD, if the thing does not come about or come true, that is the thing which the LORD has not spoken. The prophet has spoken it presumptuously; you shall not be afraid of him.
There is your scripture.
True. It also applies to false prophets saying what will not come to pass.
Joe 1:15Alas for the day! for the day of the LORD is at hand, and as a destruction from the Almighty shall it come.
They speak on behalf of God and what they teach never comes true. If we lived in the Old Testament era we'd be justified to take all of them out and stone them to death
True. It will once again be the same in the Lord's millennium:
Zec 13:3And it shall come to pass, that when any shall yet prophesy, then his father and his mother that begat him shall say unto him, Thou shalt not live; for thou speakest lies in the name of the LORD: and his father and his mother that begat him shall thrust him through when he prophesieth.
Any righteous person on earth will have right of law of the King, to execute on the spot any false prophet in their own family.
It takes many tries to get a Dispensationalist to explain and qualify their own claims
Scripture sufficiently teaches the coming of the Lord is at hand this day. And Scripture also sufficeintly warns against unbelief with a spirit of mocking His near coming.
Just no predictions of days.
No one, and I'll repeat it...NO ONE...said you have to look up to be raptured.
True. Though I imagine every resurrected and change saint rising to meet the Lord in the air, will not doubt be looking up at Him, whom they loved unto the end.
Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.
But we see Jesus...
How can it be that a brother in Christ cannot ask "What, exactly, do you mean when using the word 'near'?" without getting called ignorant and that be something you think needs to be proven with scripture?
My own experince with your handling of my own words, forbids any granted trust in what you may report about others. I don't even trust, but verify. I only verify if I care to.
Nothing personal. It's only that some people are so personally and emotionally charged about certain things, that they throw discipline out the window.
And in your case, I have no doubt your personal experince is hard learned from the past. Believe me, I can entirely empathize with you.