The problem you have is you are comparing apples with oranges.
Unsaved:
Do you believe man is spiritually dead.
Do you believe man has to be born again in order to see the Kingdom of God.
Do you believe man can understand that he has to be born again without a direct revelation from God.
Do you believe ALL men receive a direct revelation from God, and the majority choose to not believe what they came to believe as an absolute truth.
Do you believe that God hides the truth from some.
Saved:
Do you believe the saved are indwelt by the Holy Spirit.
Do you believe that Jesus is the author and perfector of salvation.
Do you believe He is working in you both to will and work for His glory?
Can you dictate to God that you refuse to mature in Christ?
YES you can!
You put up words that look like it should mean something.
But, it did not address what I said.
Believers can refuse to mature in Christ.
One way to do it is to memorize lots of Scripture to make it look like they know something...
but..... have no, or little understanding, of what they have memorized.
I will ask you again...
Can you dictate to God that you refuse to mature in Christ?
YES you can!
Join together in following my example, brothers and sisters, and just as you have us as a model,
keep your eyes on those who live as we do. For, as I have often told you before and now tell you
again even with tears, many live as enemies of the cross of Christ. Their destiny is destruction,
their god is their belly (emotions), and their glory is in their shame. Their mind is set on earthly
things." Philippians 3:17-19
Do you believe the saved are indwelt by the Holy Spirit.
Do you believe that Jesus is the author and perfector of salvation.
Do you believe He is working in you both to will and work for His glory?
What you said is how it should be. And, could be.
But when believer's god is their emotions?
They will grieve that same Spirit who wants to work in them.
(It says we can both grieve and quench the Spirit, does it not?)
If so? We will not find out in this lifetime what He wanted to will and work in us for His glory.
God did not put us on some automatic pilot mode once we became saved.
To think otherwise is fatalism.
We can fail... Its not some sealed deal that we can not make a wrong choice as to lose eternal rewards!
1 Cor 3:11-15 tells us we can choose to think wrong and lose rewards as a result! But, not lose our salvation!
You were running a good race. Who cut in on you to keep you from obeying the truth? Gal 5:7
That is the problem. We need to keep on being fed daily sound doctrinal teachings in order to grow and mature in Christ!
Pray for it. Staid and stiff denominationalism is only a place to hide when the spiritual bombs are going off in our lives...
It gives us a common point to bond with "like minded" people. But not with God, who is the Word. The Word that became flesh.
We are to become the Word made flesh in varying degrees.
Depending upon how much we are willing to mature in the Word.
Can you dictate to God that you refuse to mature in Christ?
YES you can!
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