I have used this scripture elsewhere on this forum, so it is probably not news to anyone. The passage however IS talking about how one receives the Holy Spirit. There is a specific order to receiving God's Holy Spirit. It involves a step of obedience on our part. One must receive Jesus' words.
John 14:21-24 He who has My commandments and keeps them, it is he who loves Me. And he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and manifest Myself to him." Judas (not Iscariot) said to Him, "Lord, how is it that You will manifest Yourself to us, and not to the world?" Jesus answered and said to him, "If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our home with him. He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine but the Father's who sent Me.
- We receive God's words (which are Spirit and Life), including God's word to have faith in Jesus atoning sacrifice
- If we obey, God will love us, and THEN manifest himself to us (we can not come to God but He wills)
- If we are disobedient God does not come to us
This two-way path is seen in Jesus's words:
John 3:18 "He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. And this is the condemnation, that the light has come into the world,
and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed.
But he who does the truth comes to the light, that his deeds may be clearly seen, that they have been done in God."