So what the Bible describes as wrath that would have been ours, but for Jesus atonement, is just invalidated? You may as well, like the mockers that say Jesus took a 'dirt nap', say that God should have just forgiven —why kill Jesus?
Frankly, and not saying I do understand, I don't think you understand what God's wrath is. The punishment, payment, everything that would have been ours, but for Christ, was laid on him. The principle is unmistakable.
Notice it’s never on the innocent , righteous , holy , believers but always on the wicked and rebellious sinners. It’s not once said to be upon Christ from the Father.
Thayers lexicon
ὀργή, ὀργῆς, ἡ (from ὀργάω to teem, denoting an internal motion, especially that of plants and fruits swelling with juice (Curtius, § 152); cf.
Latinturgerealicuiforirascialicui in Plautus Cas. 2, 5, 17; Most. 3, 2, 10; cf. German arg, Aerger), in Greek writings from Hesiod down "the natural disposition, temper, character; movement or agitation of soul, impulse, desire, any violent emotion," but especially (and chiefly in Attic) anger.
In Biblical Greek anger, wrath, indignation(on the distinction between it and θυμός, see θυμός, 1):
Ephesians 4:31;
Colossians 3:8;
James 1:19f; μετ' ὀργῆς, indignant (A. V. with anger),
Mark 3:5; χωρίς ὀργῆς,
1 Timothy 2:8; anger exhibited in punishing, hence, used for the punishment itself (Demosthenes or. in middle § 43): of the punishments inflicted by magistrates,
Romans 13:4; διά τήν ὀργήν, i. e. because disobedience is visited with punishment,
Romans 13:5. The ὀργή attributed to God in the N. T. is that in God which stands opposed to man's disobedience, obduracy (especially in resisting the gospel) and sin, and manifests itself in punishing the same:
John 3:36;
Romans 1:18;
Romans 4:15;
Romans 9:22a;
Hebrews 3:11;
Hebrews 4:3;
Revelation 14:10;
Revelation 16:19;
Revelation 19:15; absolutely, ἡ ὀργή,
Romans 12:19 (cf. Winer's Grammar, 594 (553));
σκεύη ὀργῆς, vessels into which wrath will be poured (at the last day), explained by the addition κατηρτισμέναεἰς ἀπώλειαν,
Romans 9:22b; ἡ μελλουσαὀργή, which at the last day will be exhibited in penalties,
Matthew 3:7;
Luke 3:7 (others understand in these two passages the (national) judgments immediately impending to be referred to — at least primarily); also ἡ ὀργή ἡἐρχομένη,
1 Thessalonians 1:10; ἡμέραὀργῆς, the day on which the wrath of
God will be made manifest in the punishment of the wicked (cf. Winer's Grammar, § 30, 2 a.),
Romans 2:5; and ἡ ἡμέρα ἡ μεγάλητῆς ὀργῆς αὐτοῦ (
Revelation 6:17; see ἡμέρα, 3 at the end); ἔρχεται ἡ ὀργή τοῦΘεοῦ ἐπί τινα, the wrath of God cometh upon one in the infliction of penalty (cf. Winer's Grammar, § 40, 2 a.),
Ephesians 5:6;
Colossians 3:6 (T Tr WH omit; Lbrackets ἐπί etc.); ἔφθασε (ἔφθακεν L text WH marginal reading) ἐπ' αὐτούς ἡ ὀργή,
1 Thessalonians 2:16; so ἡ ὀργή passes over into the notion of retribution and punishment,
Luke 21:23; Rom. (
Romans 2:8); ;
Revelation 11:18; τέκνα ὀργῆς, men exposed to divine punishment,
Ephesians 2:3; εἰς ὀργήν, unto wrath, i. e. to undergo punishment in misery,
1 Thessalonians 5:9. ὀργή is attributed to Christ also when he comes as Messianic judge,
Revelation 6:16. (The Sept. for עֶבְרָה, wrath, outburst of anger,
Notice " Gods Wrath " it doesn’t fall on Christ but Jesus protects believes from Gods wrath
Wrath is defined as “the emotional response to perceived wrong and injustice,” often translated as “anger,” “indignation,” “vexation,” or “irritation.” Both humans and God express wrath. But there is vast difference between the wrath of God and the wrath of man. God’s wrath is holy and always justified; man’s is never holy and rarely justified.
In the Old Testament, the wrath of God is a divine response to human sin and disobedience. Idolatry was most often the occasion for divine wrath.
Psalm 78:56-66 describes Israel’s idolatry. The wrath of God is consistently directed towards those who do not follow His will (
Deuteronomy 1:26-46;
Joshua 7:1;
Psalm 2:1-6). The Old Testament prophets often wrote of a day in the future, the "day of wrath" (
Zephaniah 1:14-15). God’s wrath against sin and disobedience is perfectly justified because His plan for mankind is holy and perfect, just as God Himself is holy and perfect. God provided a way to gain divine favor—repentance—which turns God’s wrath away from the sinner. To reject that perfect plan is to reject God’s love, mercy, grace and favor and incur His righteous wrath.
The New Testament also supports the concept of God as a God of wrath who judges sin. The story of the rich man and Lazarus speaks of the judgment of God and serious consequences for the unrepentant sinner (
Luke 16:19–31).
John 3:36 says, “Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life, but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God’s wrath remains on him.” The one who believes in the Son will not suffer God’s wrath for his sin, because the Son took God’s wrath upon Himself when He died in our place on the cross (
Romans 5:6–11). Those who do not believe in the Son, who do not receive Him as Savior, will be judged on the day of wrath (
Romans 2:5–6).
Conversely, human wrath is warned against in
Romans 12:19,
Ephesians 4:26, and
Colossians 3:8-10. God alone is able to avenge because His vengeance is perfect and holy, whereas man’s wrath is sinful, opening him up to demonic influence. For the Christian, anger and wrath are inconsistent with our new nature, which is the nature of Christ Himself (
2 Corinthians 5:17). To realize freedom from the domination of wrath, the believer needs the Holy Spirit to sanctify and cleanse his heart of feelings of wrath and anger.
Romans 8 shows victory over sin in the life of one who is living in the Spirit (
Romans 8:5-8).
Philippians 4:4-7 tells us that the mind controlled by the Spirit is filled with peace.
The wrath of God is a fearsome and terrifying thing. Only those who have been covered by the blood of Christ, shed for us on the cross, can be assured that God’s wrath will never fall on them. “Since we have now been justified by His blood, how much more shall we be saved from God’s wrath through Him!” (
Romans 5:9). Got?
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