So while you are changing the spark plugs, I'm out buying gas since I know the tank is empty. It would help if you checked. Or perhaps it is the oil. Or perhaps the choke line is disconnected. So many different levels. Yet you zone in only on spark plugs, as though the rest does not exist. Christianity, love, and hate are not abstractions, so please don't treat them as abstractions. If you mention driving a car to someone as an abstraction, but they don't know what driving a car is, can you really fault them for saying you don't know what you are talking about if you start getting into the nitty gritty. I mean, all they know is it is "driving a car". How dare you consider driving a car to be a top level domain, when that is all there is. This is what I hear when you talk about love. You don't consider once that there are many different levels to it.Try as many times as you think you need to do so, and every time you will be wrong. Folks like you remind me of folks doing the same thing over and over, when what they are trying to accomplish never works, because they never address the problem the second time after the first failed attempt.
Example: like trying to start a mower over and over again, with no results and not correcting of the problem in order to make it start~something as simple as a spark plug could have saved them precious time, not to mention solving the problem as to why it did not work the first attempt.
How can you possibly say that God can't do something. God can love everyone and not be sinning. How? Well, you would have to consider the definition of love in the context. See what follows for an example.God does not love all men without exception, never has, never will. He does love all men without distinction of their origin and status in life.
He can only love those whom he has chosen in Christ before the foundation of the world and there purpose to show mercy and grace to those that were chosen in Christ, all according to his own purpose and grace without any preference to works, since it was done before they did any good or evil.
How can you possible say God loves all of mankind when God word said just the opposite? Hear the word of God.
Luke 14
26 If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.
So... do you hate your father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brothers, and sisters, and even your own life? If you say you don't, then Jesus says you cannot be His disciple. And, since you are unwilling to recognize the difference in love, then you are not allowed to recognize a difference in hate here. So again, do you absolutely despise them with all your heart, and despise yourself? If not, you are not Jesus disciple. This is what your comment sounds to me about love. Unwilling to recognize anything other then one track. I bet you look at Luke 14:26 as not being one track. In fact, you probably say that it is Jesus just talking about the level of love. That is, we are to so love God with all our being, that all our other loves appear as hate. Is there anything, or anyone in the Bible who supports such a view? Yeah. John does. Why? If you hate your brother, you are in the dark until now. You are not a believer if you hate your brother. So even John understood what Jesus was saying was not actual hate, but where our love for God is such that all our other loves appear to be hate. Our love for God... the sun. Our love for father, mother, etc... a 5 watt light bulb, not even trying to be bright. There is still light, but... it doesn't mean anything in the light of the sun. It is completely blotted out by the sun.
God loves all of humanity. DO NOT SAY WITHOUT EXCEPTION. This is corporate level. I like Microsoft... Bill Gates... not so much. However, he is included in the umbrella of Microsoft. If I am just talking about Microsoft, it is all good. If I zone in on Bill Gates, I'm no longer talking about just Microsoft. I have taken it to a different level. Now I'm being personal. As such, I could then use that to reflect poorly on Microsoft, though that is wrong. Why? His position. They have no choice in the matter.
So, when God is talking about humanity, He isn't even considering Esau. He isn't even considering Jacob. It is all humanity. John 3:16 starts with all humanity. For God so loved humanity (the world), that He gave His only Son. (FULL STOP) Why do I say full stop? Because the rest of the verse is NOT about all humanity, but about a group of humanity. Those who would believe in Him. Again, I don't know who they are, so I am in no position to say "No, not you." So it is those who would. Yes, it does not speak directly to WHY, but that is understood. There is a reason why they would, but as I don't even know who they are, I wouldn't know. Note "so loved" speaks to quality of love, not the kind of love.
God's point wasn't that He loves Jacob and hates Esau. His point is to make known His purpose in election. It isn't because He knew who someone would be. It isn't in reaction to something someone is going to do, or has done. How do we know? He said that before they were born, before they had done anything, He had already chosen to love Jacob and hate Esau. Neither Jacob or Esau had any merit by which God should love or hate them. God didn't use merit. He simply chose to love one and not the other before they were born, and before they had done anything. Or even had a thought. And on top of that, it wasn't foreknowledge.
Again, there is a love God has for His creation, that which was made in His image. Only love, no hate for His image. (Would that not constitute hate for self?) The hate God has for Esau is not how we understand hate as humans. The reasoning behind God's love for Jacob and hate for Esau should tell you that right off the bat. Jacob had not done anything deserving of love, and Esau had not done anything deserving of hate, and God did not take their lives into account. There was no foreknowledge involved in God's choice. Jesus was clear on that. If man cannot be saved in and of himself, but it takes God to make all things possible, to include salvation, then foreknowledge is worthless. Why? How everyone turns out in the end would be based on God's actions, not on man's actions. The better question would be "What foreknowledge?" God planned/determined it. If He did not, then Jesus' answer to the disciples question stands, and no one is saved.