I believe that to be true. But if that is to be accomplished through the realm of TULIP, it actually makes creation a totally unnecessary act; an act which will necessarily send most of human creation to Hell. God could have selected His "elect", as characterized by the Calvinist/Reformed Soteriology, without the creation and without imputing the rebellion of the one man upon that special creation and then sending of the vast numbers of the "unelect" to eternal condemnation.
Something I am struggling with myself
@JIM-Although I admire the Reformers I have noticed you need to be careful in their Scripture selection and our Bible is written in a paradoxical time tension sense-what do they do with passages of choice, as you brought up, and to "whomsoever"
Joh 12:32 And I, if I be lifted up from the earth, will draw all men unto me.
καγω εαν υψωθω εκ της γης
παντας ελκυσω προς εμαυτον
And if I receive the hagbah (lifting up) from ha'aretz, I will draw kol Bnei Adam to myself. [Isa 11:10]
"will draw all men to Me"
This may be an allusion to YHWH's covenant love for Israel in Jer. 31:3 which, of course, is the passage on "the new covenant" (cf. Jer. 31:31-34). God woos people by His love for and actions toward them. This same metaphorical use of this term is in John 6:44 and explained in John 6:65.
Here the "all" is the universal invitation and promise of redemption (cf. Gen. 3:15; 12:3; Exod. 19:5; Isa. 2:2-4; John 1:9,12,29; 3:16; 4:42; 10:16; 1 Timothy 2:4; 4:10; Titus 2:11; 2 Pet. 3:9; 1 John 2:2; 4:14)!
There is a significant variant in this phrase. The "all" can be MASCULINE, which would be translated "all men" and is found in the ancient Greek manuscripts P75 (VID), אi2, B, L, and W, while the NEUTER, which would be translated "all things," is found in P66 and א. If it is the NEUTER it would speak of the cosmic redemption of Christ similar to Col. 1:16-17, which would probably reflect the Gnostic heresy so evident in 1 John. The UBS4 gives the MASCULINE a "B" rating (almost certain).
And many more Scriptures-but this should suffice.
I have seen many scarred by religion brother and Modern day Calvinism is not the same as Classic Calvinism.
2Ti_2:19 Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal, The Lord knoweth them that are his. And, Let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity.
For some who don't have assurance-
ASSURANCE
A. Can Christians know they are saved (cf. 1 John 5:13)? 1 John has three tests or evidences.
1. Doctrinal (belief, 1 John 1:1,5,10; 2:18-25; 4:1-6,14-16; 5:11-12)
2. Lifestyle (obedience, 1 John 2:2-3; 2:3-6; 3:1-10; 5:18)
3. Social (love, 1 John 1:2-3; 2:7-11; 3:11-18; 4:7-12, 16-21)
B. Assurance has become a denominational issue
1. John Calvin based assurance on God's election. He said that we can never be certain in this life.
2. John Wesley based assurance on religious experience. He believed that we have the ability to live above known sin.
3. Roman Catholics and the Church of Christ base assurance on an authoritative Church. The group to which one belongs is the key to assurance.
4. Most evangelicals base assurance on the promises of the Bible, linked to the fruit of the Spirit (cf. Gal. 5:22-23) in the life of the believer (i.e., daily Christlikeness).
C. Believers' primary assurance is linked to the character of the Triune God
1. God the Father's love
a. John 3:16; 10:28-29
b. Romans 8:31-39
c. Ephesians 2:5,8-9
d. Philippians 1:6
e. 1 Peter 1:3-5
f. 1 John 4:7-21
2. God the Son's actions
a. death on our behalf
1) Acts 2:23
2) Romans 5:6-11
3) 2 Corinthians 5:21
4) 1 John 2:2; 4:9-10
b. high priestly prayer (John 17:12)
c. continuing intercession
1) Romans 8:34
2) Hebrews 7:25
3) 1 John 2:1
3. God the Spirit's ministry
a. calling (John 6:44,65)
b. sealing
1) 2 Corinthians 1:22; 5:5
2) Ephesians 1:13-14; 4:3
c. assuring
1) Romans 8:16-17
2) 1 John 5:7-13
D. But humans must respond to God's covenant offer (both initially and continually)
1. believers must turn from sin (repentance) and to God through Jesus (faith)
a. Mark 1:15
b. Acts 3:16,19; 20:21
2. believers must receive God's offer in Christ (see Special Topic: What Does It Mean to "receive," "believe," "confess/profess," "call upon"?)
a. John 1:12; 3:16
b. Romans 5:1 (and by analogy 10:9-13)
c. Ephesians 2:5,8-9
3. believers must continue in the faith (see Special Topic: Perseverance)
a. Mark 13:13
b. 1 Corinthians 15:2
c. Galatians 6:9
d. Hebrews 3:14
e. 2 Peter 1:10
f. Jude 20-21
g. Revelation 2:2-3,7,10,17,19,25-26; 3:5,10,11,21
E. Assurance is difficult because
1. often believers seek certain experiences not promised in the Bible
2. often believers do not fully understand the gospel
3. often believers continue to willfully sin (cf. 1 Cor. 3:10-15; 9:27; 1 Tim. 1:19-20; 2 Tim. 4:10; 2 Pet. 1:8-11)
4. certain personality types (i.e., perfectionists) can never accept God's unconditional acceptance and love
5. in the Bible there are examples of false professions (cf. Matt. 13:3-23; 7:21-23; Mark 4:14-20; 2 Pet. 2:19-20; 1 John 2:18-19, see Special Topic: Apostasy)
Shalom
Johann.