Okay, but it says nothing about being objects of wrath by nature. That would not even make goat sense because the following verse says they were objects of God Love and Mercy. And God in Vs 5 gave them life, so they were always objects of His Love and Mercy
I copy.pasted the verses, Here it is again. in several translations.
New International Version
All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our flesh and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were
by nature deserving of wrath.
English Standard Version
among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind,
and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind.
New King James Version
among whom also we all once conducted ourselves in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, just as the others.
Berean Standard Bible
All of us also lived among them at one time, fulfilling the cravings of our flesh and indulging its desires and thoughts. L
ike the rest, we were by nature children of wrath.
Do you think that because in verse 5 it says he loved us even when we were dead and and were children of wrath that it then does not say we were by nature children of wrath? You can't subtract whatever you want to from the Bible. I realize you are having a difficult time reconciling that both could be true, but if you would pay attention, the issue is easily resolved, The problem is in the way you are reading it.
People that live as is described in 1-3, which apart from union with Christ is our nature, are under God's wrath, They are children (people) of wrath. Even though that was the case, and even though the believer was in that same boat, the elect were those he chose for mercy (objects) and he loved us even then, so he made us alive in Christ.