An issue I've had, and Paul brings it up in Rom 9 and (is tied in with limited atonement)...
Romans 9:19
Thou wilt say then unto me, Why doth he yet find fault? For who hath resisted his will?
Or, 'how does God fairly judge those whom He has passed over in election?'
Paul continues...
Romans 9:20-23
Nay but, O man, who art thou that repliest against God? Shall the thing formed say to him that formed it, Why hast thou made me thus? [21] Hath not the potter power over the clay, of the same lump to make one vessel unto honour, and another unto dishonour? [22] What if God, willing to shew his wrath, and to make his power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath fitted to destruction: [23] And that he might make known the riches of his glory on the vessels of mercy, which he had afore prepared unto glory,
I'm still not clear on this aspect.
There is a lot there. I will assume you are referring to the
sovereignty of God in vv. 22-23.
Let me start by acknowledging this will not be in agreement with the "God is love" hermeneutic for all Scripture.
For I have some "uncomfortable" conclusions.
And before I present them, I'll share how I deal with them:
"For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord.
As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts."
And now for the discomfort of v.23:
1) Sin shows forth God's justice, wrath and judgment, as well as showing forth his power in his judging, conquering, and saving
from sin.
Divine love is made more striking when it shines in the setting of wrath and judgment; i.e., God's justice is a foil for displaying the riches of his mercy.
2) The glory of God's justice through the glory of his Son is more important that the salvation of
all men, for the glory of his mercy is in the salvation of
some men.
God's answer to our objections:
I am
all-wise and
all-just (Isa 40:13-14, Ps 89:14).
I do what is
best and what is
right (Dt 32:4, Ps 119:68, Da 4:37).
TRUST ME, and lean not on your own understanding (Pr 3:5).
The sovereignty of God requires our trust, not our understanding.
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