It keeps going over your head. Why are they making bad decisions in the first place??? If you love the Lord, it means you know Him, really know Him and you don't make bad decisions because His word and Spirit guides you in all you do and say.
1 Corinthians 10:12
Therefore let him who thinks he stands take heed lest he fall.
It is not going over my head. I know exactly what you are saying. And I am showing you where you use the scripture, particularly the word "good" in a different way than what Paul is using it. That seems to be going over your head.
We never fully know the Lord. We are to be be always seeking His face and learning and growing from His word. And we do not always listen to the Spirit and often we confuse our own thoughts as being His. Believers make bad decisions all the time. It does not mean they do not love the Lord.
I also suspect from the above post that you are misinterpreting what Paul means by "walking in the flesh" and "walking in the Spirit." This is often said to mean carnal Christian's and those who are not carnal, giving to carnal the meaning of backsliding. And this is why you cannot understand what I am saying and think I don't understand what you are saying.
Paul begins that chapter with "There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus." Verse 3 "For God has done what the law, weakened by the flesh, could not do. By sending His own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh and for sin, He condemned sin in the flesh, in order that the righteous requirement of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not according to the flesh but according to the Spirit."
So those who walk according to the Spirit are those who are in Christ, and those who walk according to the flesh are those who are not in Christ. Those in Christ have the Holy Spirit. Verse 9 "You, (believers)however, are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if in fact the Spirit of God dwells in you. Anyone who does not have the Spirit of Christ does not belong to Him." 26-28 "Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness, For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself intercedes for us with groaning too deep for words, And He who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God. And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to His purpose. 29. For those whom He foreknew He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son in order that He might be the firstborn among many brothers. 30. And those whom He predestined He also called, and those whom He called He also justified, and those He justified He also glorified."
Those who love God are all those in Christ.
Those who walk according to the Spirit are all those in Christ.
Those who walk according to the flesh are all those not in Christ.