Not only that, but Rebekah’s children were conceived at the same time by our father Isaac. Yet before the twins were born or had done anything good or bad—in order that God’s purpose in election might stand: not by works but by him who calls—she was told, “The older will serve the younger.” Just as it is written: “Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated.”
The object of these verses is the sovereign choices of God. God does not follow our human protocols, like primogeniture, but works according to his own purposes and desires. God wanted the story of his plan to unfold through the younger bother, not the firstborn, and revealed to Rebekah what would happen.
This has nothing to do with election to salvation “salvation” as Calvinists interpret it. This was about which brother would be the direct father of the children of Israel. Arminians have no issue with this at all.
Au contraire. . .
The sovereign choices of God include the
1) election of Isaac to the people of God (Ro 9:6-9),
2) election of Jacob to the people of God (Ro 9:10-13),
3) election of Pharaoh to destruction (Ro 9:14-17),
4) the sovereignty of the Potter to make
from the same lump of clay vessels
for noble use as well as vessels
for common use (human waste),
5) where
the vessels didn't choose their destiny, it was assigned to them for the Potters' purposes (Ro 9:18-21),
6) which the apostle then
applies to
condemnation (Ro 9:22) and
salvation (Ro 9:23-24).
Letting the text say what it says without altering it, the NT presents the sovereignty of the Potter
to create, from the same lump of clay, vessels for the
purpose of destruction and vessels for the
purpose of salvation (Ro 9:22-24).
It couldn't be any clearer, particularly with Pharaoh (Ro 9:14-18), Isaac/Ishmael (Ro 9:6-9) and Jacob/Esau (Ro 9:10-13) as specified examples,
that God sovereignly has mercy on whom he
wants to have mercy, and he sovereignly hardens whom he
wants to harden (Ro 9:18),
all claims of injustice, to the contrary (Ro 9:14) and that
no one can say that God is unjust in dealing with Ishmael and Esau (Ro 9:14).
”But what about, “Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated.”?” You might ask! This is referring to the generations that followed, not the brothers themselves.
Nope.
No trimming the sail of the plain doctrine of the sovereignty of God in election and salvation (Ro 9:6-24) with the jib of one's personal doctrine.
Jesus used a similar expression when he said, “If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even their own life—such a person cannot be my disciple.” (Luke 14:26) Does “hate” mean literal hate for our families?
Jacob/Esau is not about "hate," any more than Isaac/Ishmael were about hate, it's about sovereign
preference (as unaccountable as the wind, Jn 3:3-8) in both cases.
No, of course not. What is means is that the difference between our love for Jesus and the realm of our earthly life is so distinct that it would be like hating our family! God did not hate Esau but he loved and chose Jacob to fulfill his plans.
Precisely!
And that is how election to
salvation works (
Ro 9:22-24).
It's not about "hate," it's about God's purpose and plan for the individual as the body of Christ, the church, the one olive tree of God's people including both OT and NT saints (Heb 11:40, 12:22-23), his bride/spouse (Eph 5:30-33), therefore, electing them out of the destruction to which they were born because of their condemnation by the sin of Adam (Ro 51:8).
The rest of Rom 10-11 follows this same principle.
No, the principle is not the same in the election of Isaac and Jacob and the rejection of Israel.
The election of Isaac and Jacob was without cause, it was based simply in God's sovereign choice and purpose.
The rejection of Israel was for cause; i.e., unbelief.
The descendants of Israel, the chosen children of God, had rejected the call of the gospel, so God removed them from the olive tree and grafted in the wild olive branches, those who believed the gospel; not to the total exclusion of Israel, but that Gods plan would be fulfilled. If Israel would believe, they would be grafted back in again, and if the gentiles who came to Christ and were grafted in stopped believing, they too could be cut off again.