So how then did God harden pharaoh’s heart?
I've already answered that question. God gave Pharoah over to his desires.
My heart is hard.
My heart is hard.
My heart is hard.
Okay. You have a hard heart.
Titus 3:9-11
But avoid foolish controversies, genealogies, dissensions, and quarrels about the law, for they are unprofitable and worthless. As for a person who stirs up division, after warning him once and then twice, have nothing more to do with him, knowing that such a person is warped and sinful; he is self-condemned.
God warned him once. God warned him a second time. God, in His loving patience, kindness, forbearance, and hope, even warned him thrice. Pharoah, being warped, sinful, and self-condemned was left to his lusts.
Or even Joseph’s brothers, which they meant for evil but God meant for good.
Are we changing the topic now? Moving away from Pharoah to someone else? Why? My answer is the same. We know those men were corrupt longer before they sold Joseph. They were all sinners and all God had to do to bring about His plan for Joseph was let those men be who they were. Anyone reading Genesis 49 readily sees both the character and the destinies of those men was understood by their father. Why did they do what they did?
Because they could.
God did not need to make them do anything. That He acted in concert with their sinfulness and character is not a conflict with anything. Take, for example, the problem recurring in scripture where men are often gone from the home in their early years but at home in their later years when they have aged. Jacob spent a lot of time with Joseph because he was old. He hadn't been around to raise his older boys, and even if he had he did not have the same affection for those who were the offspring of women beside Rachel. Jacob making a coat for Joseph is code. Sewing was women's work. A coat of many colors was a coat made from scrapes. Coats woven without seams were the expensive ones. Joseph was so happy to have a coat made by his father he, in his youthful ignorance, had no idea when he went to boast about it before his brothers in the field that he was being exceedingly prideful and foolish. They mocked him because he was too stupid to realize he was boasting about a coat made from scraps. They hated him because dad never made them a coat and they'd have been happy to have any kind of coat from dad, even one of scraps.
Those family dynamics molded those boys to become the men they were.
If God had not intervened to break Joseph (like He had with his father, grandfather, and great-grandfather before him), Joseph would have been just as prideful, hard-hearted, and foolish as the rest of them. It does not take much (if any) effort to let a fool be a fool. The effort is in making the fool wise.
I know scripture reads in the case of pharaoh that he also hardened his own heart. But of course, that would go without saying. Though it needed to be said.
Yes, but scripture is bringing the reader along through a myriad of influences and conditions that do not all come with neon lights announcing what can be understood only through contemplation.
Pharoah is contrasted by Moses. Moses was a boy abandoned by his mother, and even if for a noble and worthy cause, it likely still stung to know his mother abandoned him. Moses did not understand he was being raised in Pharoah's household to receive a nobleman's education, to learn science, diplomacy and foreign philosophies, warfare, and receive the finest foods to build a strong body and mind. Being nursed by his mother, he also learned all there was to know about Judaism. He was uniquely prepared, but he was still a man willing to murder who became a murderer. Where Pharoah had known entitlement all his life, Moses experienced chronic rejection. Sent, like a scapegoat, out into the wilderness he found acceptance..... and God. He did not know only
about God; he knew God. Up close. Personal. Face-to-face. Irrefutable. Undeniable.
God could have done that with Pharoah, too.
But He did not. God doing so certainly would have changed everything. He does not have to do anything to let a hard-hearted man be hard-hearted and the minute God gives that guy over to his lusts his fate is further sealed. Sin is much more deterministic than God.
That is the problem to be solved, and only God can solve that problem.