MANY times I have heard the complaint that my notion of God and causation comes down to God forcing puppets to do what they do. I reject completely that use of the word, "force". (Lol, I almost said, "use of force".)
But to say that God does not cause us to choose one way or the other is to me void of reason. Sometimes I think people that make dictionaries would make successful diplomats, knowing how to walk the fence. They write what people think and say, but no mention of the implications. "Freewill" is not without application of external causes, or it is not a real thing. But people think it is, though the dictionary doesn't claim one way or the other whether it is a real thing.
Even Arminians pray for God to do this or that in order to bring others to himself, or so that they can see him better, etc.