It should be clear by now that I am here to explain my own beliefs in light of what is taught by Calvinists. I feel that I understand what they believe, but I have had to ask them to set forth their beliefs on these occasions because, if I don't, and they don't, it is pretty clear to me that they will revert to saying that the thing that I am refuting is not really taught by Calvinism. But if I can get them to say the thing that I desire to refute first, there can be no arguing that certain Calvinists believe what I am refuting.
Instead of trying to contrast your view with what all Calvinists believe—because no two Christians agree on everything, not even two Roman Catholics—why not try contrasting it with what one Calvinist believes, such as Arial or myself? Just straight up ask what the person believes about this or that and compare the response you're given with your view. Sure, another Calvinist may chime in and say, "That wouldn't work against my view, which is slightly different," but you could then simply show how your view continues to succeed even against that person's view.
However, if you're committed to showing how your view is superior to what Calvinists believe generally, you could contrast it with the view presented by a confessional document (e.g., Westminster Confession of Faith) or a particular Calvinist theologian (e.g., R. C. Sproul). Just pull relevant quotes from specific published material, whether in print or online, in order to demonstrate verifiably what they believe and how your view succeeds where theirs falls short.
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Here is a thought experiment worth conducting, even if only privately. Articulate a comprehensive description of what you believe about the nature of God, the
imago Dei, and salvation. Now, try and find one other Christian who agrees with you on absolutely everything you believe about just those three things alone. You will discover that you can't find even one, because every Christian will have a slightly different view about at least one thing pertaining to just those three subjects. Maybe they know something you don't, or maybe you perceive an error they haven't detected yet, or maybe there is a difference in your hermeneutics or fundamental commitments. There are a number of possible reasons for such disagreement. But what would this lack of unity say about your system of belief, if anything? Or would you say that all belief systems are false to whatever degree they disagree with yours?