Dealing with Toxic People

[STAND]

All Tares are toxic people and all toxic people are Tares.

In his book, People of the Lie, Scott Peck actually refers to these people as "evil people".

It is amazing how he is able to establish patterns and tolerances that repeatable among these people.

Scott also notes that Psychotherapy is really only geared to help and heal normal people. He says that it is pretty much useless for 'evil people' and that most therapists would agree that 'evil people' are "overwhelmingly" impossible to treat due to their "lying" ways and their "confusion" of thinking.

Hmmmm.

The "father of lies and confusion" concept fits nicely into the many decades of research that Scott Peck has put into his conclusions about 'toxic people'.

 

[Josheb]

Toxicity is a man-made secular term it's not found in scripture applied to people. Therefore, care should be taken when applying, or attempting to apply, what is a secular man-made term taken from non-Christian humanism. God did not use the term to describe people in his word and neither Thomas, nor Peck (or any other Christian author) invented the concept. It is a valid concept but care should be taken applying the term to others, especially if and when the applicant does not possess the knowledge of God or the education, training, and skill(s) of professionals like Thomas or Peck. These men wrote their books to inform and equip the layperson, not to qualify them as the judges of others.

 

[grace2]

All Tares are toxic people and all toxic people are Tares.

In his book, People of the Lie, Scott Peck actually refers to these people as "evil people".

It is amazing how he is able to establish patterns and tolerances that repeatable among these people.

Scott also notes that Psychotherapy is really only geared to help and heal normal people. He says that it is pretty much useless for 'evil people' and that most therapists would agree that 'evil people' are "overwhelmingly" impossible to treat due to their "lying" ways and their "confusion" of thinking.

Hmmmm.

The "father of lies and confusion" concept fits nicely into the many decades of research that Scott Peck has put into his conclusions about 'toxic people'.

It is your definition, not of the Bible.

 

[STAND]

For the very few who may read this post, let it be known that this site is getting rid of me for revealing the Truth of this thread (Created for DESTRUCTION!) and the thread on Toxic Persons.

The information contained in these threads is a major threat to their dark works in this world and it is unacceptable to them.

They are doing what all sites do when they need to remove a member. They are making false accusations and setting up trumped-up excuses to ban me. This is very common on these discussion forums.

Know for certain that 99% of Christian Discussion Forums are run by non-Christians in a concerted effort to undermine Truth and the sanctity of God's Word. It is very dangerous for them if Christians connect and share their thoughts and Biblical knowledge.

Be fully aware of these things and God bless.

 

[grace2]

For the very few who may read this post, let it be known that this site is getting rid of me for revealing the Truth of this thread (Created for DESTRUCTION!) and the thread on Toxic Persons.

You don't have the Truth.

You cannot even answer simple questions asked of you.

Why are you afraid of revealing your faith?

 

[grace2]

For the very few who may read this post, let it be known that this site is getting rid of me for revealing the Truth of this thread (Created for DESTRUCTION!) and the thread on Toxic Persons.

The information contained in these threads is a major threat to their dark works in this world and it is unacceptable to them.

They are doing what all sites do when they need to remove a member. They are making false accusations and setting up trumped-up excuses to ban me. This is very common on these discussion forums.

Know for certain that 99% of Christian Discussion Forums are run by non-Christians in a concerted effort to undermine Truth and the sanctity of God's Word. It is very dangerous for them if Christians connect and share their thoughts and Biblical knowledge.

Be fully aware of these things and God bless.

You stated that there is no trinity in the Bible.

Yet you claim Jesus is God.

Your tactic is to avoid trins' persecution.

You know you are safe as long you believe Jesus is God.

 

[harmonicat]

Hebrews 2:17 For this reason he had to be made like them,[k] FULLY HUMAN IN EVERY WAY, in order that he might become a merciful and faithful high priest in service to God, and that he might make atonement for the sins of the people. 18 Because he himself suffered when he was tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted.

 

[Mr GLee]

Jesus never sought out toxic people and begged them to believe in Him.

He certainly doesn't expect us to waste our time with these people.

So many misguided Christians today preach that we should do everything we can for the toxic friends and family members in our lives. That we should be endlessly patient and continuously forgiving and strive to bring them to God.

This is absolute nonsense. The Bible teaches that we should strive to help, assist and forgive "other believers", but it says nothing of wasting months and years on those general people who are just toxic and cause us nothing but problems. They are wasting our time and our energy and that is exactly what the devil intends for them to do in our lives.

We are to purge the evil from our midst and cut ties with these people permanently. They are Tares that have been planted by the enemy among the Wheat for the very purpose of sidetracking our cause and frustrating our efforts for God. Even if a seemingly devout believer is causing that much strife and stress in our lives, we are to cut them off as well. They are not displaying genuine fruits of a believer and they are not representing Christ in any way.

Free yourself from friends and loved ones who torment your life with poison and heartache. God intends for you to be free of these people and to use your passions and energy for His cause elsewhere.

God bless.

Christ calls it smite with the fist of wickedness:

58:1-5 Cry aloud, spare not, lift up thy voice like a trumpet, and shew my people their transgression, and the house of Jacob their sins.
Yet they seek me daily, and delight to know my ways, as a nation that did righteousness, and forsook not the ordinance of their God: they ask of me the ordinances of justice; they take delight in approaching to God. Wherefore have we fasted, say they, and thou seest not? wherefore have we afflicted our soul, and thou takest no knowledge? Behold, in the day of your fast ye find pleasure, and exact all your labours. Behold, ye fast for strife and debate, and to smite with the fist of wickedness Forcing the hand of God) ye shall not fast as ye do this day, to make your voice to be heard on high.Is it such a fast that I have chosen? a day for a man to afflict his soul? is it to bow down his head as a bulrush, and to spread sackcloth and ashes under him? wilt thou call this a fast, and an acceptable day to the Lord?