If I may,
I think what makesends is asking is a question that has two parts. The first being is, "
Does God experience emotions the same way fallen humans do?" and the second is, "
Should, or is, scripture be read to anthropomorphize God's emotions?"
In the case of God desiring all men be saved, His desires occur as holy, righteous, never-adulterated desires and, more importantly, they never occur from a position of want or lack. God lacks nothing. He wants or longs for nothing, not even the salvation of a single sinner. Furthermore, God has many desires, and they never conflict with one another. His desire that all men be saved exists at the very same time He desires to destroy sin
and sinners. The two desires do not ever conflict with one another. That would be a conflicted god, a double-minded god, a god at war within himself.
That god is not God.
This is true of all God's emotions. When God feels regret it is not because He's done something wrong or made any kind of mistake. Such a premise would be antithetical to His being both ontologically perfect
and perfect in all His ways. All His emotions occur in the context of His imperviousness to temptation and sin. That is never true of humans (collectively or individually). All His emotions occur within the context of His being The Creator, His having a purpose creating creation and His omni-attributed sovereign power to always accomplish His purpose and desires and never not do so.
So when scripture says God desires all men be saved that should be read and understood that not only does He desire it but it will happen. God does not have fruitless desires. But it can't be read to support universalism, either, because God also desire the sinful receive the just recompense for their sin.
The ideas that either God has one chief desire that over-rules all others (the desire to save), or that God experiences that desire in conflict with Himself, or that any alternative is a compromise on His part, or that sinful humans have any ability to circumvent God and His purpose and desires runs into direct contradiction to the fact the exact same cross that saves also condemns.
From the very beginning of creation God had at least two preparations, plans, purposes, and outcomes for Calvary: salvation and judgment. It's not salvation or judgment. It's both simultaneously existing. The exact same Son of God who came like a silent lamb to the slaughter will return in with a sword in his mouth for violent judgement.
@makesends can correct me where I strayed from the intent of his inquiry.
Lastly,
It is, imo, important that you don't know what he's trying to say because what he asked is a very valid question, and one that is fundamental and foundational to a correct reading of the verse in question (and any verse reporting on God's affect). If my clarification is correct, then perhaps now what he asked is better understood.
It is not okay to select one verse and make an entire doctrine from it. That is called proof-texting and proof-texting is rarely sound exegesis and almost always leads to bad doctrine. 1 Timothy 2:4 is not the one single, solitary verse that defines all that God feels or desires about sin, sinners, redemption, and the redeemed.