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Why can't a person facing Judgment say, "The reason I am being judged to eternal destruction is because you did not ordain/predestine me to eternal life?
I've always wondered about this line of questioning. What about "X" at judgment, doesn't this give people an excuse?
I've wondered about this type of question because it is so utterly bankrupt when given a little thought. Three basic considerations are as follows.
First,
the objection suffers from a failure to understand the nature of God in relation to finite, sinful man. Sometimes in Reformed apologetics this distinction is called the Creator/creature distinction. The vast majority of negative criticisms against God fail right at this point. To highlight this distinction and its ramifications I'll start with a few simple comparisons. God has infinite wisdom and knowledge; one human being has very limited, perspectival knowledge that is sinfully corrupted. God is perfect and holy; the human objector is sinful, acting in unbelief, pride, arrogance, self-centeredness, etc. God is completely self-sufficient; the human objector owes his/her life and every moment to God's sustaining hand; all human beings are owned by God.
The list of comparisons could continue, but this brief list is more than enough to dive home the point. What is hope of such a questions against an all-knowing God? Does the objector really think that this objection is somehow going to accomplish anything against God? It's like an infant picking a fight with a navy seal. The objection/question is literally loaded and packed with extreme hubris, for if the objector has really considered God's godness and superiority above the objector, then the question would literally answer itself. The problem with the question/objection is that it suffers from a sinful failure and a theology failure.
Second,
the objection failure to understand who is the judge and what the terms for judgement are. Since
God is God, and the objector is not, then it follows that the objector/questioner is always on the defense. Human beings will always be the ones giving an account to God; God is never obligated to give an account to sinful people. Good luck trying to reverse those roles in the judgement! lol
The terms of the judgement are outlined in scripture, which is an obvious blind-spot of the objection. No scripture is given to sustain the objection/question. In scripture, we see a revelation. No, this is not the book of Revelation; rather, this is a revelation of the wrath of God in Romans 1. People will be judged in accord with their knowledge of God in relation to their sin. I've spelled this out in another thread, the link presents a more spelled out understanding of Romans 1 (see end of paragraph). We can immediately note the obvious; the objection of the op does nothing to alleviate the reason for their judgement. Even if they were never elect, they will be judged on the basis of their knowledge of God and their sin. The objection of the op is essentially irrelevant in the heavenly court; and though more reasons could be given, one can easily see that the objection will fail.
Third,
the objection seems to think that the objector is owed God's grace, which is a contradiction of terms. God never set the preconditions for his judgement to be based upon the necessity of His giving grace prior to judgment. This is just a mistaken theological assumption common to the Arminian side of the fence.
I'll edit this to add this paragraph. Sadly, the Arminian objector has failed to distance himself from the same objection. Since God knows infallibly who will and who will not believe, but He created them anyway, then how is their salvation possible to be anything different than what God knows. One cannot make God's knowledge dependent upon the creature's action without destroying God's self-sufficiency. Thusly, even the Arminian is dealing with people who cannot do otherwise than what God knows.
Conclusion: The objection/question fails at multiple levels. It fails to understand the deep gap between the sinful creature and the infinite, holy God. It fails to understand who is the judge and what the terms of the judgment are. And the objection is built upon bad theology, assuming that God must make salvation possible in order for one to be liable for judgment. As such, I think that the objection/question has no persuasive value and it utterly bankrupt.