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Why do Calvinists debate?

Failure to read with a basic level of comprehension is one of the most obvious tell tale signs of a troll. The poster was constantly misrepresenting me early in the thread, even after I explained something so basic as why I was bringing up getting the groceries. The poster still could not understand the process of getting groceries and how it related to the point I was making. Reminds me of possessing eyes, but cannot see; and having ears, but cannot hear. It's our job to make it abundantly clear, but only God can open the eyes.
I have known Arial for quite a while and I have great respect for her. We have even been partners in "crime." Arguing with the unitarians was quite a battle. She always said she would make a good moderator but the powers that were never gave her a chance. On this site, she has more than proven her worth. She is a great moderator. She was lucky not to be one at the old place because as a moderator we were always picking up the owner's loose screws.
 
No, it isn't but it results from spiritual life.
When you decide to demonstrate that scripturally instead of repeating it as a fiat you declare, we would be able to continuing. I suspect a purpose in doing the same things over and over, saying the same things over and over, never addressing what is said to them, never supporting anything they say biblically, dismissing all exegesis of the other party with nerry a glance, is a tactic of those who know they cannot support what they make scriptures to mean; cannot because they actually do see that the other view is valid and they have no way to show it isn't; and may even suspect that the obvious reason for that is because the Bible doesn't support what they say, therefore what they say is not true after all. So the tactic becomes the monotony of non compliance to what is asked of them, and a stubborn repetition of the same old same old, never stopping, in the hopes that they will simply wear their opponent down and then they can tell/ convince themselves they won the argument. I could name a number of names you battled that same mentality against on different subjects, but I think you know each and everyone of them that I refer to.They all did the very same things you are doing on this subject. And you called them on it when it was done to you. So I know you can do better. I just don't know why you aren't. I admire you too and I know you as one who is well versed, knowing scripture well, and very intelligent. You can strike scoring goals with the best of them----but not on this topic. You mostly stayed away from the Calvinists threads.

All the while the Reformed has not intended to argue but to shed light upon what the OP claimed they wanted to learn about, and doing their best to show the doctrinally sound things in it.
 
When you decide to demonstrate that scripturally instead of repeating it as a fiat you declare, we would be able to continuing. I suspect a purpose in doing the same things over and over, saying the same things over and over, never addressing what is said to them, never supporting anything they say biblically, dismissing all exegesis of the other party with nerry a glance, is a tactic of those who know they cannot support what they make scriptures to mean; cannot because they actually do see that the other view is valid and they have no way to show it isn't; and may even suspect that the obvious reason for that is because the Bible doesn't support what they say, therefore what they say is not true after all. So the tactic becomes the monotony of non compliance to what is asked of them, and a stubborn repetition of the same old same old, never stopping, in the hopes that they will simply wear their opponent down and then they can tell/ convince themselves they won the argument. I could name a number of names you battled that same mentality against on different subjects, but I think you know each and everyone of them that I refer to.They all did the very same things you are doing on this subject. And you called them on it when it was done to you. So I know you can do better. I just don't know why you aren't. I admire you too and I know you as one who is well versed, knowing scripture well, and very intelligent. You can strike scoring goals with the best of them----but not on this topic. You mostly stayed away from the Calvinists threads.

All the while the Reformed has not intended to argue but to shed light upon what the OP claimed they wanted to learn about, and doing their best to show the doctrinally sound things in it.
No, I learned that within the first two or three replies. Calvinists debate to bring the redeemed to Christ. I don't agree with the tounglashing you gave me but I also don't mind it. After years of "God's Truth's" screeds, I developed callouses. I appreciate your Zeal for what you believe in and the fact that you don't back down. And I would rather deal with Calvinists who fully rely upon God for their salvation than deal with the Amnimian onslaught of rules and regulations. If you think nailing jello to the wall is difficult, try organizing live hand grenades.

At the other place, I avoided reformed theology debates because I could not give the unitarians and the righteous sisters a place to drive their wedges. Let alone try to keep Sister Siss from tearing you a new one. It was stressful. Oh, and by the way, I never thought for one second that I would wear you down. That just doesn't happen with you. Thanks for the great exchanges.
 
Probably assumptions are the biggest failing of debate forums. This is true especially when we respond to our assumptions rather than to what is being said. God, is the beginning and then the end, He has seen all time and observed all conclusions. He knew all the decisions of mankind before he laid the first rib in Adam's body.
We all assume many things, and sometimes, assume a whole worldview that colors everything else. You want a "nice" God. That's sweet. But God is not tame, nor is he interested in pleasing us nor in fitting our assumptions.
Now are we going to assume what God did? Are we going to tweak the words of scriptures that say, "Every man" because we assume it did not mean that?
Is this your way of arguing? Can you show me what you are even talking about?
Why is it not necessary to believe the words written? Has exegesis become our eraser to correct the scriptures?
Are you assuming now that someone (perhaps I) does not believe the words written? Exegesis does not erase. Really? But maybe it would be good to tell us what you are talking about, perhaps even an example, instead of just casting vague aspersions.
What mistakes are overlooked when one assumes what and how God loves. Have we changed the scriptures from God so loved the world... to For God sorta' loved the world...
Here's a good example of your assumptions ruling your interpretation. John 3:16 nor more says that God loved the world "so much"..., than it says that God loved the world "in this way", or, "in the following manner".
Once we assume the office of bible editor we are in a pretty precarious position, wouldn't you say?
Yet that is what you did there in concerning John 3:16.
 
We all assume many things, and sometimes, assume a whole worldview that colors everything else. You want a "nice" God. That's sweet. But God is not tame, nor is he interested in pleasing us nor in fitting our assumptions.
I have a loving Heavenly Father who loved me so much that He sent His son to bear my sin and die my death that I might live His life

He is Love
Is this your way of arguing? Can you show me what you are even talking about?
I’m speaking of how the human heart loves to change the words of scriptures to fit their views.
Are you assuming now that someone (perhaps I) does not believe the words written? Exegesis does not erase. Really? But maybe it would be good to tell us what you are talking about, perhaps even an example, instead of just casting vague aspersions.
It is for the same reason Jesus spoke in parables.
Here's a good example of your assumptions ruling your interpretation. John 3:16 nor more says that God loved the world "so much"..., than it says that God loved the world "in this way", or, "in the following manner".

Yet that is what you did there in concerning John 3:16.
I have no clue as to what you are talking about. The text seems pretty straight foreword. God so loved the world.
 
Did he force you to be born the first time?
Birth is not by our will but continuing to live is.
You still equate choosing him with being saved. Choosing is a result, not the cause.
Choosing to submit rather than resist and He will save you. Or but in other words. Call upon the name of the Lord and He will save you.
In other words, then, according to your construction, we do have whereof to boast.
Only of Christ. If I allow a great mechanic to fix my car. I have nothing to boast about other than to extol the mechanic. The same with Christ.
 
No, I learned that within the first two or three replies. Calvinists debate to bring the redeemed to Christ.
I don't know why you see it that way when most acknowledge that it is not a salvational issue.

I can't of course speak for anyone but myself, but the reasons I debate the subject are varied but never with the idea of bringing someone to salvation. I do enjoy the debate because I am exploring it more deeply as I do. And then sometimes it is because always things are said about the theology that are so wrong and so damaging that they can't be left standing without correction. It is my hope when I do that, that it will remove the misconceptions and dissolve the animosity against it and those who believe it. In hopes of tearing down the dividing wall so to speak. In hopes there can come an understanding of it even if not agreement.

Another reason is that I know that through it I gained a much greater understanding of God that knows no end. My ability to trust Him and know Him surpasses all that is possible when one does not know Him as He is. It gave me understanding of the common words associated with our salvation, the doctrines in it. The love of God for His people, grace, the atonement, justification, propitiation, substitution, and much, much more. Where before I was looking at them, then I could look into them and behind them. And I find there is no end of doing that also. And I want everyone to have that.

It is a sorrow to me when it is ridiculed instead.
I don't agree with the tounglashing you gave me but I also don't mind it.
I certainly did not mean it as a tongue lashing and sorry you took it that way. I am just surprised.
 
I don't know why you see it that way when most acknowledge that it is not a salvational issue.

I can't of course speak for anyone but myself, but the reasons I debate the subject are varied but never with the idea of bringing someone to salvation. I do enjoy the debate because I am exploring it more deeply as I do. And then sometimes it is because always things are said about the theology that are so wrong and so damaging that they can't be left standing without correction. It is my hope when I do that, that it will remove the misconceptions and dissolve the animosity against it and those who believe it. In hopes of tearing down the dividing wall so to speak. In hopes there can come an understanding of it even if not agreement.

Another reason is that I know that through it I gained a much greater understanding of God that knows no end. My ability to trust Him and know Him surpasses all that is possible when one does not know Him as He is. It gave me understanding of the common words associated with our salvation, the doctrines in it. The love of God for His people, grace, the atonement, justification, propitiation, substitution, and much, much more. Where before I was looking at them, then I could look into them and behind them. And I find there is no end of doing that also. And I want everyone to have that.

It is a sorrow to me when it is ridiculed instead.

I certainly did not mean it as a tongue lashing and sorry you took it that way. I am just surprised.
When I said bring the redeemed to Christ I meant that they were already redeemed but needed to be caught in the net so to speak. You know fishers of men.
 
No, I learned that within the first two or three replies. Calvinists debate to bring the redeemed to Christ.
I debate for several reasons, the main one of which is that I love the truth. And I love to pursue the truth. The fact that debate helps me express my thoughts better, and helps me understand other people's modes of reasoning and points-of-view, and so on, is part of that one. I love truth.
 
When I said bring the redeemed to Christ I meant that they were already redeemed but needed to be caught in the net so to speak. You know fishers of men.
I sort of knew what you meant, but saw it more as meaning that Reformed considered them not redeemed without the Reformed theological and doctrinal view. But they do see them as redeemed according to their beliefs about the person and work of Jesus, for that is what joins one to Him and gives salvation. Irregardless of how one thinks that came to pass. The Calvinist/Reformed know they believe because they are among the elect, and the A'ist in whatever form, does not know or believe that.

But here is something important to remember considering there are many C/R on this site. Nearly all of them, if not all of them, once believed the same way as the salvation through choice do. So they have experience of both sides of the debate and are familiar with their own thoughts and the teachings, and the interpretation of certain scriptures, from the side you hold up, and the side of all those who argue against the doctrines and theology of C/R.

Whereas some on that "other" side may have some knowledge of the theology and the doctrines that come from it, and have formed an opinion, but they have not ever believed it or lived it. And therefore, their frame of reference cannot penetrate to actually understand what is being said. There is a sense in which it is completely alien to them, and the methods presented in defense of the doctrines, also somewhat alien, at least on that particular subject specific to the TULIP or any particular letter of the acronym. And the problem seems to be a refusal or inability being caused by deeply entrenched tradition of beliefs,--- which is normal and unavoidable in everyone to some degree, about anything really, --- the ears can't hear or accept what is being said. But in the debates, that comes across very differently than what it is. It comes across as simply being ignored and their words being treated as having no value.

So the purpose is not to catch the redeemed in a net. In most cases, and certainly in mine, it is an offering. An attempt to give to the redeemed something of great value. The same value and glory that they found in it. With me it was a simple longing to hear about God from my teachers, and as I have said before, but will repeat, I had no idea what I meant when I thought that. I only knew what I meant when the something about God was placed in my lap. I recognized it and pursued the study of this teaching and way of finding what scripture means, not just what it can be made to say. For it is true, a person can make scripture say anything they want it to. I did not want it to say anything. I wanted to know what it meant. And all those glorious and deep things began to unfold within me. WHat it means to seek God. This personal, personal relationship and interaction and promise and glory of knowing God. The rolling back of the curtain to not just see grace, atonement, substitution, justification etc. but to peer into them, to see God in all His attributes at work in them in perfect unity and harmony. And an expanded view of everything in His progressive working out of redemption and His purposes in it.

And I have come to realize that those who reject C/R in favor of the tradition that we all grew up in, the only one most of us ever heard, that of "chose Christ and you will be saved." instead of "Believe Christ and you will be saved." are in the same place I was. That of having no frame of reference to understand what I mean by the words I said above as to what happened within me that I underlined. But I say them anyway, and I contend for my faith anyway, because you never know when someone might begin to think about it and consider it, when the spark might catch, and the flame burn bright. It isn't really different, but it is more.
 
I am the one that uses fiat a lot and you correctly pointed out that I was doing the same thing.
I am sure I have done it too but as I grow, and I have been growing and the forums have been a means of that oddly enough, I try not to do so but to show my work. And it is work, something I am known to have an aversion to, depending on what it is. This has a lot of similarities to paper work to me, something I hate in the secular world, as time consuming and requires me to sit still. At least in this case, I find it an interesting and good thing, unlike paying the bills and engaging with numbers, or cleaning the house. "AGAIN! Didn't I just do that yesterday?!"
 
Mercy_Shown said:
When I said bring the redeemed to Christ I meant that they were already redeemed but needed to be caught in the net so to speak. You know fishers of men.
I sort of knew what you meant, but saw it more as meaning that Reformed considered them not redeemed without the Reformed theological and doctrinal view.
Not that either of you meant to be dealing with time sequence here, but it is interesting to note that God does not seem to always be calling one Redeemed in reference to time at all. In fact, though the word used was not 'redeemed', one reference places the time before the beginnings of 'the world'.

What came to mind, reading your interchange, was the strange working of sequence in 1 Jn 1:9. My father was (gone now) a master of Koiné, with a beautifully skeptical way of looking at the commentaries people made on the Greek. He knew very well that languages don't exactly operate according to anybody's formulas, yet, (just as we must when speaking), we are reduced to using formulas lest we stray into exorbitant interpretation. He showed me how —and I could not reproduce just how, but— in effect, the verse says, "If we are confessing our sins, he is faithful and just to have already forgiven us our sins..." —The forgiveness is completed action in the past, contingent on our current confessing.
 
I sort of knew what you meant, but saw it more as meaning that Reformed considered them not redeemed without the Reformed theological and doctrinal view. But they do see them as redeemed according to their beliefs about the person and work of Jesus, for that is what joins one to Him and gives salvation. Irregardless of how one thinks that came to pass. The Calvinist/Reformed know they believe because they are among the elect, and the A'ist in whatever form, does not know or believe that.

But here is something important to remember considering there are many C/R on this site. Nearly all of them, if not all of them, once believed the same way as the salvation through choice do. So they have experience of both sides of the debate and are familiar with their own thoughts and the teachings, and the interpretation of certain scriptures, from the side you hold up, and the side of all those who argue against the doctrines and theology of C/R.
Yes, but the opposite is true on traditional sites as well.
Whereas some on that "other" side may have some knowledge of the theology and the doctrines that come from it, and have formed an opinion, but they have not ever believed it or lived it. And therefore, their frame of reference cannot penetrate to actually understand what is being said. There is a sense in which it is completely alien to them, and the methods presented in defense of the doctrines, also somewhat alien, at least on that particular subject specific to the TULIP or any particular letter of the acronym. And the problem seems to be a refusal or inability being caused by deeply entrenched tradition of beliefs,--- which is normal and unavoidable in everyone to some degree, about anything really, --- the ears can't hear or accept what is being said. But in the debates, that comes across very differently than what it is. It comes across as simply being ignored and their words being treated as having no value.
I think also that many reformed believers do not fully appreciate the ramifications of their doctrine. Suffice it to say, I don't think it is salvific. What is necessary is to believe on the Lord Jesus Christ with all your heart and call upon Him.
So the purpose is not to catch the redeemed in a net. In most cases, and certainly in mine, it is an offering. An attempt to give to the redeemed something of great value. The same value and glory that they found in it. With me it was a simple longing to hear about God from my teachers, and as I have said before, but will repeat, I had no idea what I meant when I thought that. I only knew what I meant when the something about God was placed in my lap. I recognized it and pursued the study of this teaching and way of finding what scripture means, not just what it can be made to say. For it is true, a person can make scripture say anything they want it to. I did not want it to say anything. I wanted to know what it meant. And all those glorious and deep things began to unfold within me. WHat it means to seek God. This personal, personal relationship and interaction and promise and glory of knowing God. The rolling back of the curtain to not just see grace, atonement, substitution, justification etc. but to peer into them, to see God in all His attributes at work in them in perfect unity and harmony. And an expanded view of everything in His progressive working out of redemption and His purposes in it.
I had a nearly identical experience after I reached a point where my religion was burned to the Ground and then Jesus asked, "will you leave also?" When I said, no I choose you the glory of God opened up for me in His plan of salvation.
And I have come to realize that those who reject C/R in favor of the tradition that we all grew up in, the only one most of us ever heard, that of "chose Christ and you will be saved." instead of "Believe Christ and you will be saved." are in the same place I was. That of having no frame of reference to understand what I mean by the words I said above as to what happened within me that I underlined. But I say them anyway, and I contend for my faith anyway, because you never know when someone might begin to think about it and consider it, when the spark might catch, and the flame burn bright. It isn't really different, but it is more.
This is the part that confuses me. Won't that spark light and catch fire anyway since God chose that person before the foundation of the world? In fact according to C/R isn't it impossible that it wouldn't?
 
I had a nearly identical experience after I reached a point where my religion was burned to the Ground and then Jesus asked, "will you leave also?" When I said, no I choose you the glory of God opened up for me in His plan of salvation.
How can you say it was nearly identical when you have no idea what it actually was in me? By the same token I cannot say it wasn't. But if it is not seeing the same things from the same perspective, how can it be. We don't know what we don't know.

There is a proverb that says no one can know the sorrow of the joy of another and this applies to what I am speaking of. When you are taking delight in the beauty and peace of standing in snowfall, a cold wind in your face. Then you tell someone about it, expressing your joy. They can appreciate that you are joyful, that you liked it, maybe even get joy at your joy. But they can never know exactly what you felt. There is no way to communicate that. It is the same with grief. Others may also grieve with and for us. But the particular sorrow you have belongs only to you.
This is the part that confuses me. Won't that spark light and catch fire anyway since God chose that person before the foundation of the world? In fact according to C/R isn't it impossible that it wouldn't?
It is not a necessary part of salvation and what I am speaking of is about growing in our knowledge and understanding of God after we are saved. We do not grow by osmosis.
 
How can you say it was nearly identical when you have no idea what it actually was in me? By the same token I cannot say it wasn't. But if it is not seeing the same things from the same perspective, how can it be. We don't know what we don't know.
Right, I should have been more precise. My experience was similar to what you described.
 
I think also that many reformed believers do not fully appreciate the ramifications of their doctrine. Suffice it to say, I don't think it is salvific. What is necessary is to believe on the Lord Jesus Christ with all your heart and call upon Him.
fww, I mostly agree. In reading through the numerous writings from reformed believers here and elsewhere, I get the impression that many seem to believe that their understanding of scripture, their use of doctrine, the way they can describe their Calvinism is salvation.
However I lean toward the premise that Christianity is lived, not learned.
 
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