Again, you have failed to even read my post. I've already dealt with this, and your sentence on thinking about it has already been demonstrated to be a straw man. I will present my post to you again because you clearly have not read it with comprehension. I will even underline key parts to get you up to speed with real positions, rather than your straw man.
"Notice the if/then or since/then type of argument. If this is true, then something follows. A non-sequitur fallacy is when a conclusion does not follow from the premise. In this case, we have an amazing example of the non-sequitur fallacy.
The argument: since regeneration happens before coming to Christ (and thus apart from it), then coming to Christ isn't necessary.
We have the premise and the conclusion.
(1) This only demonstrates an incompetent ignorance of Calvinism. In Calvinism regeneration precedes faith logically, not temporally. And regeneration brings about faith. It is a change of nature in the depraved person that then leads to the person's action. There is a tight causal connection between the change of nature and the actions that follow from it (i.e. conversion, actions that are brought about by the change).
(2) Not only does it demonstrate ignorance, but the argument demonstrates a straw man. The phrase "and thus apart from it" is simply not held by Calvinism. It is a foreign object inserted into Calvinism falsely.
(3) With the foreign object removed, then coming to Christ is completely necessary; and coming to Christ necessarily follows from the change of nature produced by God. Hence, we go right back to the original fallacy. It is a rather blatant non-sequitur fallacy, for the conclusion absolutely does not follow from the premise. Where once a person loved darkness and hated the light, after the change, then the person sees Christ and his sin in a new light, and belief and repentance necessarily follow."
Now, you can live in fictional straw man fallacy land, or you can read with a little comprehension. You aren't even dealing with Calvinism, but rather fighting against a fiction in your own head.