I think you two are getting into the weeds about how to say something you both basically agree on.
Consider what
@Eleanor affirms, here:
--I could get wound up with her, disagreeing on the first phrase of that! Even the Arminian and Pelagian will protest that faith is not a work, not a performing, (but they don't mean it how we do (to include both
@Hazelelponi and
@brightfame52 ).) They earnestly believe that faith is not a work, but they claim it is OUR faith given us by God by God convincing us (or other words that amount to the same thing) by which they mean that faith is not belief except by us
willing to submit to Christ (or other words to that effect).
But I don't disagree with her, except with her arrangement of words. We both believe the same thing there. I think we all four believe the same thing on this. But maybe I'm missing something. None of us believe in libertarian free will.