Josheb
Reformed Non-denominational
- Joined
- May 19, 2023
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- VA, south of DC
- Faith
- Yes
- Marital status
- Married with adult children
- Politics
- Conservative
Who are you when you judge? Nothing other than a God wannabe. We judge others - criticize, nitpick, nag, attack, condemn, - because we literally usurp God's throne. In this we become devils to each other, acting as accusers. When you and I fight, our minds become filled with accusations: your wrongs and my rights preoccupy me. We play the self-righteous judge in the mini-kingdom we establish: "You are so stupid. You've gotten in my way. You don't get it."
In an argument, you offend me by crossing my will. O respond by pointedly confessing your offenses to you! At the same time, I explain to you how all my feelings are really your fault. If only you were different, I wouldn't be the way I am. You do the same to me, pointedly confessing my sins to me and excusing your own. Nowhere in the heat of conflict does anyone confess his own sins, except as a way to buy time for counterattack. "Yeah, I was wrong to do that but..."
The log remains firmly planted in the eye (Matthew 7:1-5) as each party plays lawgiver and judge. But there is one Lawgiver and Judge, he who is able to save and to destroy. Who are you that you judge your neighbor? Here we see that a far more profound conflict burns at the heart of interpersonal conflict. Presumption, pride, demand, and self-will stand at odds with the one true God.
(from "Take Heart: Daily Devotions to Deepen Your Faith" by David Powlison)
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In an argument, you offend me by crossing my will. O respond by pointedly confessing your offenses to you! At the same time, I explain to you how all my feelings are really your fault. If only you were different, I wouldn't be the way I am. You do the same to me, pointedly confessing my sins to me and excusing your own. Nowhere in the heat of conflict does anyone confess his own sins, except as a way to buy time for counterattack. "Yeah, I was wrong to do that but..."
The log remains firmly planted in the eye (Matthew 7:1-5) as each party plays lawgiver and judge. But there is one Lawgiver and Judge, he who is able to save and to destroy. Who are you that you judge your neighbor? Here we see that a far more profound conflict burns at the heart of interpersonal conflict. Presumption, pride, demand, and self-will stand at odds with the one true God.
(from "Take Heart: Daily Devotions to Deepen Your Faith" by David Powlison)
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