Note to participants: Please make an effort to keep the posts about the posts and not the posters.
One of the things I do when I sign on to moderate is got to a thread and search for the word "
you." I then examine what is being said and how the "
you" is being used. Are the posters speaking to each other, about each other, or at each other. This thread was picked randomly. Blessedly, it's only a few posts old.
Here are some of the "you" statements, you-based accusatory inquiries and bickers found on this page:
- You have the different times confused.
- On what authority do you deny the promised eternal inheritance in the body of Christ.... (assumes the poster denies something)
- Your hermeneutic multiplies things which are the same.
- Your grievously flawed hermeneutic...
- it is your literal interpretation, in contradiction to apostolic and orthodox teaching.....
Those are only a few. There are several others. Rather than edit each post and possibly send notifications informing the poster
rule 2 or rule 4 (or whichever rule it might be) has been breached, I'm asking you all to be a little more mindful about how the word "you" is used. The first example in that list above, for example

, could be written, "
It appears the different times of those verses are being confused," or "
I think those verses pertain to different times and should not be confused," or simply worded as a question, "
Are the different times being confused?" The same holds true for every one of the dozen you's I found in this one page (Posts 1-17). Most of the problem "
you"s fall in the gray area between the letter of the law in the forum's rules. So a word of encouragement or exhortation is offered:
Please make an effort to keep the posts about the posts, and not the posters.
Another note: This forum has very few complaints. Very few posts are reported. I'd like it to stay that way and assume every CCCF member hopes likewise. Each of us makes the forum what it is. Every member is to be commended for their conduct, so I extend to you my personal appreciation. As the forum gets older and more join that might change but subsequent members have you as their example and guide. I hope never to have much to do here

.
Now.... back to your regularly scheduled program. Very interesting topic.