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● Gen 33:5 . . Looking about, he saw the women and the children. Who, he asked:
are these with you? He answered: The children with whom God has favored your
servant.
Because Jacob's response drew Esau's attention to the lads rather than the women,
Jewish folklore proposes that Jacob did that so as to take Esau's mind off the wives.
What an ugly thing to say. It implies that Esau was a barbaric cave man who stole
wives from their husbands; yet there is not one single incident in the entire Old
Testament recording something like that about him. So that remark is unfounded,
and totally uncalled for. It's highly unlikely that Esau's mind would be off the
women anyway while they were standing right there in front of him; and
subsequently introduced one by one.
● Gen 33:6-7 . .Then the maids, with their children, came forward and bowed low;
next Leah, with her children, came forward and bowed low; and last, Joseph and
Rachel came forward and bowed low;
The Hebrew word for "bowed low" basically means to depress, i.e. prostrate. At Gen
22:5, and also in many, many other places in the Old Testament, that word is
translated "worship".
I think the scene went something like this: First Esau asked about the women and
children. Then Jacob, by way of introduction, like a master of ceremonies on a
variety show, moved to the side, raised his arm, gestured towards his family, and
presenting them for Esau's review, proudly announced; Voila! My offspring, with
whom God has favored your servant.
Why not introduce the wives first? Well; in that day, wives were a dime a dozen;
literally bought and sold. But offspring were to brag about. Men regarded their
progeny as gold and precious stones in value.
"Sons are the provision of the Lord; the fruit of the womb, His reward. Like arrows
in the hand of a warrior are sons born to a man in his youth. Happy is the man who
fills his quiver with them; they shall not be put to shame when they contend with
the enemy in the gate." (Ps 127:3-5)
First up were Bilhah with Dan and Naphtali, then Zilpah with Gad and Asher. Then
came Leah with Reuben, Simeon, Levi, Judah, Issachar, Zebulun, and Dinah. Then,
last of all, Rachel and Joseph.
Everybody did obeisance to Esau. I tell you the humility of Jacob's family is
astounding. Nobody, not one among them, Jacob included, harbored the
unbearable "chosen-people" mentality that is so prevalent today among modern
Jews.
Esau has been given a very bad rap in Jewish folklore. Yet, not one single time does
the Old Testament portray him as a murderer, a liar, a thief, or an adulterer. Those
allegations have all been smirched upon his reputation by people with evil minds;
prejudiced against him for no good reason at all but merely because his Jewish
detractors can't bear to accept him either as a brother, nor as an equal. Jacob's
posterity has been guilty of all the crimes and sins of which they accuse Esau, and
more too; yet many Jews count their own people superior to Esau in every way
imaginable.
The only reason Jacob's posterity continues to exist at all is because of the oath and
the promises that God gave their ancestor Abraham. If not for that early covenant,
they would be just as extinct today as the Edomites, and for the very same
reasons.
"Fair Zion is left like a booth in a vineyard, like a hut in a cucumber field, like a city
beleaguered. Had not the Lord of Hosts left us some survivors, we should be like
Sodom-- another Gomorrah." (Isa 1:8-9)
● Gen 33:8 . . And he asked: What do you mean by all this company which I have
met? He answered: To gain my lord's favor. Esau said: I have enough, my brother;
let what you have remain yours.
No doubt uncle Laban would have judged Esau a fool because Rachel's dad, badly
infected with a serious case of unbridled avarice, would have certainly snapped up
Jacob's offer immediately. But Esau's repertoire of vices apparently didn't include
greed. He was actually a very moderate kind of guy, and easy to satisfy. I think I'd
categorize Esau as someone who feels that better isn't necessary when adequate
will do.
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