Your response to this:
He does all those things to be sure. But where does the new birth come into the equation?
Jesus told you. When you look to the cross in saving faith. and receive the gift of salvation.
Jesus says one has to be born again before they can enter the kingdom.
Agreed 100%
And what does it mean to be in the kingdom?
It means to be born again, Adopted. Sanctified, Justified, redeemed. Made alive, etc etc etc..
John tells us the same thing, that those who believe are born of God
yes. this is what I have been saying all the time
and the flesh and man's will had nothing to do with it
I never said any of these things
. Jesus tells us in John 10 that the Jews who did not believe even though his works proved who he was, did not believe because they were not his sheep. He says he knows who are his sheep and they hear him and follow him. He says the Father is giving them to him and that he would lay down his life for them. So why is it, and how is it, that some believe when they hear the gospel and some don't? Why is it that perhaps you heard the gospel for years and never believed it, and then one day you did?
Jesus answered.
You do not see because you do not believe.
He who believes is not condemned, he who does not believe is condemned already.
The jew rejected Jesus because of their hard hearts. Thats why the saw the evidence, and ignored it.
Why is it that you seem to be fighting against being born again of God before he gives you understanding
Because it is not true
I am born again BECAUSE I was given understanding from God. and looked to the cross in faith.. Until then. i was dead in sin.
why do you seem to be fighting against the fact a just God will keep his justice intact which means one must be justified BEFORE they can be made alive?
and prefer that you first understood something (what has still not been given) with your own mind,
I prefer that God was able to work through my thick head and pride and brought me to repentance.
and he did not have to alter his justice or character to do it
independent of God but with his help, so that you could of your own free will choose to believe or not believe? To accept or reject a gift he was offering. Why the idea that he gives us enough understanding to accept or reject? Is it that "free will" and faith causing the new birth rather than the other way around, are really a safe guard against something you find repugnant and that wars against the flesh of fallen man? That being, that God is sovereign in salvation. In making it possible in Christ, in applying it to a person, and in choosing who to apply it to---and that before the foundation of the world. That salvation and sanctification are monergistic from start to finish.
since you mentioned the word, what I find repugnant is the thought that God overrules his own justice to make people alive against their own will. and then refuses to allow the person next to them the ability to even have a chance to be saved.