When were you born again? You are saying you have no assurance of being saved. If you were born again and you don't even know that, I would question it.
Dave_Regenerated,
Up until about the year 2012 I was believing in my salvation because of what I had believe from my own church.
Who would challenge a church that was main stream from its start in the early 1600s and grew from there. It was so ingrained in my family
history because I had a family member ... way back... who was a Vicar in the Church of England and left that church... OVER A BAPTISM ARGUMENT.. went to Scotland, became a Presby minister.... made his way over here to New England and Ultimately down to
Virginia where he built his own Presbyterian church.
I was secure in my personal salvation up unti in around 2012 and I joined a religious forum and got my eyes opened wide.
I had no idea that Protestants disagreed so much with each other.
And it was very true that 13 of those members... if not blatantly telling me , they ever so subtly questioned my salvation because
if I was not immersed... I was not saved because according to them Baptism saves.
NOW... I took some time this afternoon to write out what I had believed up until my salvation was questioned.
And I have been left with a less than satisfactory opinion of what my church still teaches.... NO, I have not found another
that seems more spot on.... So I will continue to seek my education from this forum and a couple of others.. and the Holy Bible
that for whatever reason I see different things in there then many will.
This is what I had always been taught, told and believed.
Baptism in the Presbyterian church is a sacrament.
In the Presbyterian church sacraments are Holy practices of the church that are unique means of receiving God's grace.
The original definition of "sacrament" for Christians held that these were practices initiated by Christ himself.
The sacrament of baptism:
Baptism, in the Presbyterian tradition,
is a sign and seal of God’s gift of salvation ~
of the saving work that has already been done for us in Jesus Christ.
Through baptism, we respond to God’s gracious gift, offering our lives to God in service and entering into covenant relationship with God as members of the body of Christ.
Ordinarily, the sacrament of baptism (baptism with water and
in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit) takes place at the time of profession of faith, whether by oneself (as in the case of adult or believer’s baptism) or by one’s parents/guardians (as in infant baptism). Either way, it is God who chooses, calls and claims us, long before we are able to articulate our faith on our own. ( I need to interject that while the church preaches this way.... I still am not solidly Calvin... AND THAT IS BECAUSE OF MY FORUM EDUCATIONS..TYVM)
Parents who desire the sacrament of baptism for their children or for themselves shall make vows that
(a) profess their faith in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior,
(b) renounce evil and affirm their reliance on God’s grace,
(c) declare their intention to participate actively and responsibly in the worship and mission of the church,
(d) declare their intention to provide for the Christian nurture of their child.
The congregation shall
(e) profess its faith, using the Apostles’ Creed,
(f) voice its support of the baptized,
(g) express its willingness to take responsibility for the nurture of those baptized.
Also an Elder can lead the congregation in these professions and affirmations.
The actual Baptising is the application of water to an adult, child or infant by an ordained
minister in the presence of a
church congregation.
Presbyterian churches follow some common practices for
baptism, including the belief that
baptism by immersion is not necessary.
And~Baptism is received only once.
Baptism is one of two sacraments practiced by Presbyterians; Communion is the other.
It is believed that baptism is a “seal” to make clear what God has already done – just like sealing a letter with wax, and putting an official seal on it.
No ritual with human hands will change the mind of God, but
this ritual signifies that this person – whether infant or adult – belongs to God, who has already claimed him or her. Baptism is a very important ritual for Presbyterians, bestowing a life-long identity on the believer, and for us its most important significance is for the parents and the congregation – who promise in baptism to raise that child according to the Christian faith.
When baptised as a baby, or young child, it is expected for one to continue in the growth by attending confirmation classes
that are held around the age of 13 and older. (I attended mine at 12)
You cannot join the Presbyterian church, if you are in that age group without attending the classes, and it is not unti;
you complete the classes and join the church... are confirmed... that you can partake of your first Holy Communion.
Holy communion is the 2nd sacrament recognized by the presbyterians.
Confirmation is not a sacrament for Presbyterians, but it’s extremely important in our understanding of baptism. Again, We baptize infants to show that God reaches toward us in love, before we have any ability in ourselves to choose...
That’s the bedrock concept of Presbyterianism: God loves us despite any virtue of our own.
God chooses us, not the other way around…and this has radical implications! But that doesn’t mean that we don’t have choice…. It’s often said that Presbyterians don’t believe in free will That is not so...we do!
But the time when a child is able to choose through the ritual of confirmation, (again around age 13) And is taught about the Christian faith, given a mentor to help him or her understand it,
it is then they are faced with whether to embrace the faith into which he or she has been baptized. .... or not. This is taken very seriously among the clergy as well as in the congregation.
It is that our Confirmation is a reaffirmation of our baptismal vows.
For those of us who are baptized as children or infants, it is our parents who initially accept the vows on our behalf.
Confirmation then becomes our opportunity to personally reaffirm those baptismal vows and claim the grace offered by Christ in baptism.
IOW Confirmation is the beginning of a personal lifelong journey.
Confirmation is professing of our faith.
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And I am stopping now because this will be falling on a lot of deaf ears.... But there you have what I had believed from the age I could understand anything, until 2012ish... about 6 decades.