I would consider God making me alive while still dead in sin a compromise on Gods integrity. A refusal to deliver his own perfect justice. and the fact he only chose a select few. and not even allow the rest a possibility to be made alive. an attach on his character.
Well, you say that would be a compromise on God's integrity, and yet, at the same time, you rejoice that he did, taking full benefit of his mercy. What does Scripture say about being grateful? Col 3:15
And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body, And be thankful. (There is that word "called" again when referring to believers.) See also Eph 1: 3-14.
Scripture tells us plainly that God did make us alive while we were dead in sin. Eph 2:4-5
But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ---by grace you have been saved---.
Is it an attack on his character to agree with Scripture that he chose, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Noah etc.? Is it an attack on his character to say he chose Israel out of all the nations on earth to covenant with? The attack on his character is to say he does not have the right to do as he pleased with his creation. Paul puts it this way: Romans 9:18-21
So then he has mercy on whomever he wills, and he hardens whom very he wills. You will say to me then, "Why does he still find fault? For who can resist his will?: But who are you O man, to answer back to God? Will what is modeled say to its molder, "Why have you made me like this?" Has the potter no right over the clay---.
The rest, can thank their father Adam for their rejection of Christ instead of casting the blame for it on God. "and not even allow the possibility to be made alive" as you say above assumes that salvation is not grace, but rather something owed to all mankind, and that, by God. If he saves anyone, he must save everyone, or give everyone equal opportunity. It also shows that you do not believe, and was also stated, that God does not make us alive while we are dead in sin.
So please tell me what does make us alive while we are dead in sin?