Nope. That is a Uber-Fail. No one has ever said that; I did not mean to imply or insinuate any such premise. I was speaking more about your bias than Smith's. Logically, if someone wanted to understand something they would start with those thinking, believing, or practicing that thing.
You didn't.
One of my practices that irritate others the most is my use of original sources. I do NOT tend to appeal to extra-biblical sources but when I do it's either because that source is the subject of discussion or an original source in his/her own words. I get accused of posting doctrine when post after post after post after post of mine is scripture, scripture, scripture, scripture read exactly as written or properly exegeted. I'm not one to "read" things into scripture (like you) that scripture does not actually state. It is profoundly revealing, for example, to show someone where an epistle explicitly states it was written to the saints, those chosen of Christ, and then read, "
The letter was not written to the saints; it was written to Jewish Christians." I'm not the one "interpreting" scripture, denying what it actually states, and/or imposing my personal doctrines on the thread. The use of extra-biblical sources always runs the risk of creating fallacious appeals to authority. It's bad practice. When it comes to diverse subjects like soteriology it also runs the risk of construction errors whereby one source is generalized to be representative of the whole when it is not. That too is bad practice. Happens a lot in this board.
This op happens to be explicitly on Calvinism. The op asserts an analogy that isn't actually an analogy. If an analogy from Smith was going to correctly be submitted for thought and discussion it would have been a statement different from mainstream Calvinism. There's is no comparison between like statements because there are no differences to compare.
That is all on you. And yet, despite that foolishness the posts were kept about the posts and the op addressed with manners and respect.
In order to understand Calvinism
correctly, find a source who understands Calvinism correctly and link to the source so others can verify its context to makes sure any quotes are not quote-mines. That is not a particularly difficult concept to know, understand, apply, or practice with others.
How would anyone know what to criticize if the source hadn't been consulted.
Let's say you, a non-LDS person, were debating an LDS and had never read anything LDS in its original source. The only way you'd have any means for doing so is by using second-hand (someone who had themselves read LDS sources) or third hand sources (someone using a second-hand source but hadn't themselves done so. You might even be basing your dissent of fourth-hand or further removed sources trusting each person in the telephone-tag line of information was correct. You'd have placed your trust in others not knowing whether or not they been honest and accurate.
So I read the book of Mormon, the writings of Jospeh Smith, Brigham Young, some of the Presidents' in their own words, their
articles of faith, and
basic doctrines. I've also read my Bible and read it from cover to cover as written and in chronological order many times. I can make comparisons without second-hand or third-hand sources. So could you if you had it in you to do so. Be careful though because folks will call you arrogant and condescending, and attack you for posting original sources and plainly read scripture.