fastfredy0
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Gee, I pondered the question for awhile but I can't come up with much. I retired so I suppose I gave up work and I do miss that to some degree. I suppose I gave up living in Canada in my young 40s. Texas/the U.S. is so much better. I don't see a change in me emotionally over time or a change in my striving for anything as I've always had all the material things for the most part.Compared to when you were 19, what have you discarded from your life? A short answer, a brief list of a few items or concerns, should suffice.
Compared to when you were 39?
Compared to 59?
Assuming you make it to 89 (God willing) what do you suppose you will have discarded? What will you no longer be taking with you into the next years?
My family is rock solid as I measure such things. My parents, wife of 40 years, 2 males children, 2 daughter-in-laws are all good, church going Christians. My 7 and 8 year old grand daughters are Christians who are home school and religion is part of their curriculum. Grand son is 4 so a little early to call. All are financially secure. My mom is 96 but is mentally "out of it". She doesn't recognize her children. She does still like singing hymns. In-laws are all Christians. I had a mentally retarded brother who died. One of the two other brothers is a good Christian and the other is GAY. I sort of would have liked it if he came out of the closet while my dad was alive so I could see the "fire works", on the other hand, maybe best he never knew. The gay brother even married a good Christian wife who we (wife and I) are still close to.
Wife is 8 years my junior so I'll have someone to push my wheel chair should that become necessary. For my age, I'm in excellent health.
I had an interesting discussion with my 2 sons. I asked them to put a percentage odds on whether Jesus is God and whether they will end up in heaven. One said 100% on both questions. The other was more like me with 99% chance the Jesus is God and some percent in the 90s that he'd end up in heaven. Later, I asked the wife the same question and she was similar to me. She is a wondrous person, much better than I. She, when considering her life in God's eyes, says "she sucks" as she disapproves of herself from God's perspective. From a human perspective she is a 9.9 out of 10.
I have not found that to be the case for the most part. I suppose if I got into the finer minutia I could come up with something. My only significant loss was my dad who died at 80. I miss him. Occasionally I pray to God to say HI to my dad which is contrary to my assertion regarding Isaiah 65:17 (slight giggle).Life is a chronology of loss and gain.
You seem to go much deeper into the psychological analysis of life relative to me, so I probably didn't answer your question.