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● Rom 12:10a . . Love each other with genuine affection
The Greek word translated "love" in that verse basically pertains to fraternal
feelings, which is a kind of love that leads to attachments, viz: it goes beyond
things like courtesy, kindness, consideration, and charity, etc. Those things exhibit
civility which is a non affectionate love; in other words: being nice to people
without necessarily liking them isn't the love we're looking at here.
Rom 12:10a is not an easy command to obey because it requires the emotions of
fondness and affection, i.e. actually liking one's fellow Christians as opposed to only
being nice to them.
Real affection is easy to imitate, but not so easy to duplicate. Going through the
motions is just not the same as feeling the feelings.
* There are people in this world who, by nature, are affection-challenged. They
can't even feel anything for their own children, let alone other people. For them,
parenting is a nightmare rather than a dream come true. Their children are a
burden rather than a blessing. Children ruin those parents' lives instead of
brightening them up and making their lives more worth the living.
However, affection-challenged people aren't defective beyond repair because
Christianity isn't entirely a do-it-yourself religion; it's also a supernatural religion;
viz; part of the plan of salvation is regeneration.
"If the Spirit of Him who raised Jesus from the dead is living in you, He who raised
Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through His spirit, who
lives in you." (Rom 8:11)
"Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day
by day." (2Cor 4:16)
* A heads up to affection-challenged people: fraternal love is inconvenient. It will
make you a better human being, but it will also make you pretty uncomfortable at
times too because this love gets into your gut and makes you emotional, sensitive,
compassionate, and sympathetic. Those kinds of feelings will take some getting
used to by folks unaccustomed to them.
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